I recently visited South Africa — a place where I lived, studied, and worked for sixteen years. The visit stirred a mix of emotions and memories. I was reminded of my early years as a new bride and young mother, learning to navigate the sacred institution of marriage centered on Christ. I wanted to give my daughter the best in education and social experiences, even as I was grounding myself spiritually and building my academic and professional path.

Life Then: A Rhythm of Faith and Connection

Back then, life wasn’t centered around work. We worked, yes, but it never defined us. Spiritual growth, relationships, and everyday adventures flowed naturally, without interference. There was time to nurture friendships, grow in faith, and enjoy the rhythm of community life. It was a season where faith was not squeezed into the margins — it was woven into the fabric of each day.

Life Now: A Different Kind of Balance

Fast forward three years, and our family has grown with an adorable new addition. Motherhood has begun anew — but this time, in an environment worlds apart from the one I once knew so well. My new world is filled with opportunities, efficiency, and endless possibilities. Yet it also requires much more intentionality to stay spiritually vibrant and alert. The pace is faster, the expectations higher, and the quiet moments fewer.

In this new rhythm, I’m learning that spiritual connectedness doesn’t happen by default — it must be cultivated. Staying anchored in Christ means creating space for prayer, choosing stillness over hurry, and remembering that success means little if it comes at the cost of spiritual peace.

Lessons from Two Worlds

Though my worlds may differ — one rich in community and the other brimming with opportunity — the lesson remains the same: Christ must remain the center. He is the constant in the shifting seasons, the balance between doing and being, and the gentle reminder that a fulfilled life is one deeply rooted in Him.

Reflection Prompt

What “worlds apart” moments have you experienced in your own life?

How can you stay spiritually anchored amid change and opportunity?

Share your thoughts in the comments — your story may encourage someone else.

Abosede Ijabadeniyi (PhD)

Research Director: Regenerate247 Research Solutions

Abosede is a market researcher and project manager who enjoys helping organizations flourish by proactively combating issues that hamper insights-driven customer engagement, business resilience and sustainable business practices. She is passionate about faith, family, and purposeful living. Drawing from her experiences across projects, continents and adventures, she writes reflections that encourage others to live intentionally, stay grounded in Christ, and find meaning in every season of life.